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Travel Tips for Lesbians

Updated: Jul 15

Because adventure doesn't retire, it evolves.

I have created Sapphic Journeys for women like us, mature LGBTQIA+ travellers, couples, and solo explorers who are done settling for travel experiences that weren't built with us in mind. We deserve more than just "gay-friendly" stickers on hotel windows. We deserve spaces where we are genuinely, completely welcome. So here are the travel tips I wish someone had given me earlier.


Research Before You Go — But Don't Let Fear Stop You


Not every destination is equally welcoming, and it's worth knowing what you're walking into. Websites like ILGA World publish annual reports on LGBTQ+ rights by country, and the Spartacus Gay Travel Index is a useful reference point. That said, don't let an imperfect score put you off everywhere. Many destinations that score moderately on paper have thriving, visible queer communities in their cities.


Do your research, trust your instincts, and ask in the community — women who've been there will always give you the most honest picture. Remember, knowledge is power, and it can transform your travel experience.


Seek Out LGBTQ+-Owned and Affirming Businesses


Wherever possible, spend your money with businesses that actively support our community. LGBTQ+-owned guesthouses, restaurants, and tour operators exist in more places than you'd think. Not only does it feel better to be in a space that was built for you — it supports the communities that have created those spaces, often against considerable odds.


When you choose to support these businesses, you're not just enjoying a meal or a stay; you're contributing to a larger movement of inclusivity and acceptance. It’s a beautiful cycle of support that enriches our travels.


Travel During Pride Season When You Can


There is something genuinely magical about arriving in a city during Pride. The energy is different. The visibility is different. The sense of belonging is different. Whether it's Amsterdam in July, Barcelona in June, or Brighton in August — planning a trip around a Pride event gives you an instant community, instant events, and an instant reason to go somewhere new.


Imagine walking into a vibrant parade, surrounded by people who celebrate love in all its forms. It’s an experience that fills your heart and soul with joy.


Don't Underestimate the Power of Travelling with the Right People


I've travelled solo, I've travelled in couples, and I've travelled in groups. The one thing I know for certain is that the people you travel with shape the experience as much as the destination does. That's the whole reason I built Travel Chemistry — because finding women who travel the way you do, who are open to the things you're open to, who bring out the best version of you on the road, is genuinely life-changing.


If you haven't tried it, I encourage you to do so. The right travel companions can turn an ordinary trip into an extraordinary adventure.


Trust Your Gut in Every Situation


This applies to travel generally, but especially to us. If a hotel, a bar, a neighbourhood, or a situation feels off — leave. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Our safety and comfort come first, always.


And when something feels right — a restaurant where the host's face lights up when she sees you, a guesthouse run by a woman who clearly gets it, a city street where you can hold hands without a second thought — lean all the way in. Those are the moments that make travel what it is.


The world is more beautiful when you see it as yourself. Go and find your people along the way.


Embrace New Experiences


Travel is about stepping outside your comfort zone. Embrace the unfamiliar. Try new foods, learn a few phrases in the local language, or join a local workshop. Each new experience adds a layer to your journey, creating memories that will last a lifetime.


When you open yourself up to the world, you might discover hidden gems that you never expected. Perhaps a quaint café where you can share stories with locals or a breathtaking view that takes your breath away.


Connect with Local LGBTQIA+ Communities


Before you travel, reach out to local LGBTQIA+ groups. They can offer invaluable insights and recommendations. Many cities have community centers or online forums where you can connect with like-minded individuals.


These connections can lead to friendships and experiences that enrich your journey. Imagine being invited to a local gathering or discovering a hidden spot that only locals know about. It’s a way to experience a destination through a unique lens.


Document Your Journey


Take the time to document your travels. Whether through journaling, photography, or blogging, capturing your experiences allows you to reflect on your journey. It’s also a wonderful way to share your adventures with others.


When you look back on your travels, you’ll cherish the memories you’ve created. Plus, sharing your story can inspire others to embark on their own adventures.


Conclusion


Travel is a beautiful tapestry woven with experiences, connections, and memories. As mature LGBTQIA+ women, we have the power to shape our journeys in ways that resonate with who we are.


So, let’s embrace the world with open hearts and adventurous spirits. Together, we can create a community that celebrates our unique journeys and fosters connections that last a lifetime.


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